tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post5108039427507874479..comments2024-02-14T16:13:13.361+11:00Comments on Land of Meg: Infancy to AdulthoodMeghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15392450981955408100noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-32503771605204235732009-10-06T21:44:16.124+11:002009-10-06T21:44:16.124+11:00I felt the same way when I read that paragraph. I...I felt the same way when I read that paragraph. It was a weird list. Even though my children are not adults yet, my proudest moments with them are when I see one of them being a loving sister, sharing with someone, or when they try to make me laugh. Those are the "skills" I hope they'll always have.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00330710901734830451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-81036577999495715732009-09-24T09:41:25.984+10:002009-09-24T09:41:25.984+10:00Good god I typed 'Father' in incorrectly a...Good god I typed 'Father' in incorrectly above-<br />perhaps he was right !!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-40955543831041987782009-09-24T09:38:23.653+10:002009-09-24T09:38:23.653+10:00I Agree with all the above
BUT
He didnt say '...I Agree with all the above<br /><br />BUT<br /><br />He didnt say ' I have failed as a farther.'<br /><br />Which is what my dad said to me at 18.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-15676085283772888472009-09-23T17:57:53.336+10:002009-09-23T17:57:53.336+10:00Hmmm. How about another list (Liszt?)
Abject.
Mid...Hmmm. How about another list (Liszt?)<br /><br />Abject.<br />Middle-class.<br />Grovelling. <br />Conformist.<br />Paternalistic.<br />Patriarchal.<br />Conceit.<br />One’s daughter plays some mean Chopin, doesn’t one. And one’s daughter can cook! There’s a good girl.<br />Sheeeeesh!<br /><br />Love.Glen Dunnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-47271991158941306092009-09-23T13:20:32.470+10:002009-09-23T13:20:32.470+10:00You're absolutely spot on, Meg. Hamlet and Cho...You're absolutely spot on, Meg. Hamlet and Chopin aren't really going to cut it if they've raised an unpleasant person. <br /><br />Enjoy your break! :)Feroniahttp://inayellow-wood.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-72943035491601165632009-09-23T11:26:27.151+10:002009-09-23T11:26:27.151+10:00yes, i agree margaret; daughter as extension of hi...yes, i agree margaret; daughter as extension of his accumulated wealth, daughter as property (ego) et al...<br /><br />perhaps he cld have reflected on her natural inclination to free-range and be of the world. these are such lovely things common to those who are not over-parented and molded by privatising values.<br /><br />(word verification: merri)Permapoesishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05565236504537501720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-42726812395774472972009-09-23T10:51:05.606+10:002009-09-23T10:51:05.606+10:00The part that gets me is that he's listing her...The part that gets me is that he's listing her abilities but then he adds, "none could equal the deed of nurturing a human being from infancy to adulthood to produce a product like this." So he's saying that nothing she can do equals what he has supposedly done in raising her. It's not about her or her accomplishments, it's about his. He's a self-centered egotist and as such he sees his daughter not for who she is but only for the things that she can do because, he's never taken the time to get to know her. So sad.Margaret aka: Fact Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12095614958278394051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-33941592310003703942009-09-23T07:48:54.217+10:002009-09-23T07:48:54.217+10:00WOW..... the measure of success is a really person...WOW..... the measure of success is a really personal thing ..... one that makes parenthood even more daunting for me. What will I think the day I send my boys off into the world... will I have given them the skills they need to survive and thrive in the environment they choose. Will I be proud of the men they grow into?? Like you I value kindness, honesty, respect and social/global awareness.... <br />Thanx for expanding my thoughts. with this post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-82436216348347129972009-09-23T06:57:00.829+10:002009-09-23T06:57:00.829+10:00LOL...... This sounds like the kind of list my Dad...LOL...... This sounds like the kind of list my Dad would write, about my skills not what kind of person I am. I think your right about the age, at 18 I had no real conection to the world. That didnt come until my late twenties.Alexinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-4134872320661830032009-09-22T20:34:02.606+10:002009-09-22T20:34:02.606+10:00This is such a thought provoking post, Meg. I supp...This is such a thought provoking post, Meg. I suppose taking your child to college is a rite of passage for Americans, so it would be a time when a parent would take some stock and feel sentimental.<br />I, like Robinson, also feel that the deed of nurturing a human being to successful adulthood - however you wish to measure success - is worth honouring.<br />It'd be interesting to see what attributes your readers would see as being worth celebrating in a grown son or daughter.WriterBeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628264091204856514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-86083452057747532722009-09-22T18:12:35.617+10:002009-09-22T18:12:35.617+10:00hmm. can make her friends laugh - but with what te...hmm. can make her friends laugh - but with what technique we ask? A solidly wonderful amusing girl or a malicious and sadistic one!Umatjihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15413838821059854456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1533384189359298258.post-16120301164124885462009-09-22T18:10:47.067+10:002009-09-22T18:10:47.067+10:00My very first two thoughts when I read what he wro...My very first two thoughts when I read what he wrote about his daughter was "he doesn't sound like he really knows her at all" and "I think he's pompous".<br />Chopin and tennis don't keep you warm at night. <br />Good conversation, empathy, laughter, listening, friendship - that is what I look for in a person.suzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01663399157680843604noreply@blogger.com